All protocols

The 22 hard moments.

Every protocol in Kidley today, with the exact anchor script for each. These are the moments parenting books rush past.

Sleep, bedtime, mornings
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Bedtime resistance

When the routine keeps reopening. Stalling, call-backs, one more thing.

"It is bedtime. I love you. I will see you in the morning."
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Waking up at 4am

When morning starts far too early. What to do, and what not to.

"It's not morning yet. Lights off. I'm right here."
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Morning rush

Out the door without losing your mind. The pre-warned countdown that works.

"Shoes in the basket by 8:15. Then we go."
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Getting dressed & shoes

When clothing becomes the battle. Three scripts that end the standoff.

"You can pick the red or the blue. I'm picking by 8:10."
Big emotions, body responses
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Public meltdowns

When public pressure makes everything louder. The exit-the-aisle script.

"Let's find a quiet spot. I've got you."
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Hitting, biting & kicking

When bodies act before words. The four-step calm-and-redirect.

"You can be angry. You cannot hit. I'm going to help your hands stay safe."
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Whining & repeated demands

When the answer keeps getting reopened. The boring-return script.

"I've answered. The answer is the same."
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Separation anxiety & clinginess

When your child cannot let go. Goodbye scripts that build security.

"I always come back. See you after lunch."
Siblings, sharing, social
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Sibling fighting

When safety comes before fairness. Who started it stops mattering.

"Safety first. I'll be here while bodies calm down."
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Sibling jealousy & sadness

When the new baby takes the air out of the room.

"You don't have to like it. You can tell me about it."
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Sharing & playdate conflict

When ownership and turns collide. Three scripts for the moment.

"They're using it. Your turn is next."
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School or nursery drop-off

When goodbye feels impossible. Building separation security.

"I love you. I'll see you at pickup. Big hug, then I go."
Daily life โ€” routines, food, body
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Mealtime battles

When food becomes control. Without making it a power struggle.

"You don't have to eat it. You do have to come to the table."
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Bath, teeth & hygiene resistance

When care tasks feel invasive. The transition standoff, ended.

"Bath is happening. You pick: now or after the song?"
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Potty training resistance

When body learning turns into pressure. The pressure-release reset.

"Bodies learn at their own pace. We'll try again later."
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Leaving the house

When the transition has too many steps. Splitting the chain.

"Shoes first. We can do the rest at the door."
Screens, school, behaviour
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Screen time shutdowns

When "five more minutes" becomes a fight. The pre-agreed ending.

"The show is ending. Tears are okay. Screen still goes off."
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Homework battles

When starting feels too big. Lowering the activation cost.

"Just open the page. We start with the easiest one."
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Defiance & refusing instructions

When cooperation becomes a power struggle. Three reframes.

"This isn't optional. You can do it now or in two minutes."
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Lying & sneaking

When truth does not feel safe. Making honesty cheaper than the lie.

"I'm not angry. I want the real version so I can help."
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Swearing & disrespectful language

When big feelings come out as sharp words. The redirect.

"That word isn't for our home. Tell me the feeling underneath."
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Dealing with death & grief

When children need clear, gentle truth. Age-appropriate language.

"Their body stopped working. We can be sad together."

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